Curtis Donald Reeves
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Curtis Donald Reeves
August 22, 1928 - December 24, 2016
Curtis Donald Reeves was
born in Pike County, Mississippi on August 22, 1928 to T.C. Reeves and Bennie
Boyd Reeves. He was the oldest of four children. His father
died unexpectedly when Curtis was seven. Due to uncertain times and
circumstances the children were forced to be taken in by the Methodist Home in
Jackson, Mississippi. He lived at the home until he was around 15. He
used to talk about some of the chores he had to do while living there.
They had to keep their rooms clean, bring in wood for the stove and feed the
animals. When he got older, he took over running the milking operation
when the foreman wasn’t there. He said the foreman called him
“Jackpot” because he had hit the jackpot when Curtis came to work for
him. One of his favorite things he liked to do in the home was
playing tobacco sock ball, which is like baseball but they used a stuffed sock
for the ball and their hand for the bat. This is probably what led to his
love of baseball.
When he turned 17, he and
his siblings moved to Orange with their mom. He attended and graduated
from Orange High School. While there he played both baseball and
basketball.
When he graduated from high
school he enlisted in the Air Force in June of 1946. He served as a radio
operator mechanic for 10 months in the US and 26 months overseas. He
loved to talk of the places he got to see while in the service. When he
got out of the service he attended Texas A&M University.
While he was home during the
summer after his sophomore year, his mother introduced him to the love of his
life, Edna Mae Landry. It wasn’t long before he gave her his school
ring. Before he went back to start his junior year, he asked for his ring
back. He said Edna looked pretty disappointed until he took an engagement
ring out of his pocket and placed it on her finger. They were married
June 7, 1952. He graduated from Texas A&M in 1953 with a bachelor of
science degree.
Shortly afterward they moved
to Pt. Arthur and he began working for Texaco Refinery.
In April 1954 they welcomed
their first child, Darrell. Two years later, Randy was born followed by
Tammy a year later. They would welcome two more children into the family,
Michael in 1960 and Rhonda in 1963. He was a lifelong member of the First
United Methodist Church. He retired from Texaco as a supervisor in the
Packaging and Shipping Department after 31 years.
Curtis was happiest when he
was out on the lake with a rod and reel in his hands. He taught all of
his children how to fish. They knew if they were going fishing with their
Dad they would be on the lake by dawn and wouldn’t come in until dusk.
They have many wonderful memories of time spent at the lake house He loved
watching the Aggies play and they would gather as a family every Thanksgiving
to watch the Aggie football game. His favorite sport was baseball and he
couched all of his sons in Little League for many years. His favorite
baseball team was the Houston Astros. He always planted a huge garden and
loved working in it. Of course he had 5 children and a wife to
help. He was an active member of the McDonald’s morning coffee
club. He liked to tell jokes, even though his family encouraged him not
to.
Curtis lived by the values
he instilled in his children. He believed in working hard, honesty,
family, being a positive thinking person and looking for the good in
people. He was a firm believer in discipline and that there were
consequences for your actions. (You can ask his children about that
one.) He believed in being loyal to God, country, and family. He
loved his family and he especially loved his wife of 64 years. His
favorite saying was “Where there is a dark cloud, there will always be a silver
lining.”
He will always be remembered
for never saying good-bye. He always said “I love you big, big,
big.”
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