Robert "Bob" Peavey
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Robert "Bob" Peavey
December 22, 1925 - October 16, 2016
Robert
Morse Peavey, an amazing husband and father known by all for his good humor,
love of people and kindness to animals, passed away on October 16, 2016, at the
age of 90 after a brief but heroic battle with cancer. Better known to the
world by his nickname "Bob", he treated everyone he met with kindness
and a genuine interest in them and their families. Bob was born on December 22,
1925, in Indianapolis, Indiana to George and Dorothy Peavey.
Bob was a farm
boy.
He
spent weekends and summers while growing up with his Grandfather Williamson on
his farm and also with his Uncle on his Dairy farm. He would rise early to
handle the chores, feed the horses, gather the eggs and milk the cows. It was this early experience that developed
his unending love for animals.
Bob was a
patriot.
He
enlisted into the Army Air Corps to faithfully serve our country in World War
II. He was stationed mostly in the Far East and spent most of his time at the
Shanghai Airbase training facility. He would love to tell fantastic stories
about his time in China.
Bob was a
scholar.
He
attended primary school in Indianapolis, middle school in Dallas, Texas, and
then ended up graduating from Lamar High School in Houston, Texas. He loved to
tell stories about how when the weather was nice, he would ride his horse to
school and tie it up in the pasture next to the campus. His early life
experience on the farm inspired him to get his Bachelor's degree in Biology
with a minor in chemistry with the intention to go on to veterinary school. He
was an excellent student and participated in many extracurricular activities.
He was president of his Kappa Alpha fraternity and bonded very closely with men
that he continued to interact with and support long into his golden years.
Bob was a husband.
While
attending Southwestern University in Georgetown, Texas, an angel, Elizabeth
Peters, caught his eye and he was never the same again. They would enjoy going
dancing at the local dance halls and could cut a rug with the best of them. He
stood before God and stated that he would love, honor, and cherish his bride,
until death do they part, and he kept his word. He loved Elizabeth from the
moment they met with a deep and abiding passion for 66 years.
Bob was a
father.
He
always put family first. Bob and Liz brought five wonderful children into this
world: Bill, Donna, Frances, Bryan and Robert. They enjoyed wonderful
childhoods with weekends and holidays on road trips visiting grandparents in
both Indianapolis and Temple, Texas. Even though he worked long hours, he was
never an absentee father. He always had
time to throw a baseball or help his children learn to ride a bike. He always
welcomed friends into his home. He always encouraged us to use proper English and
annunciate. He would approach problems and conflicts with the following advice:
“Always look at everything from the other person's point of view” and
continually stressed honor and dignity.
He was never ashamed to say he was wrong. He had a special way of making all us kids
feel like we were his favorite, and he showed us clear boundaries, with lots of
instruction reinforced with firm, but never harsh discipline, wrapped up with
lots of love and tickling!
Bob was a hard
worker.
He
had an untiring work ethic. Some of his early jobs included a short stint as a
milkman and delivering potato chips. In
his many years as office manager and fuel coordinator at Martin- Matthews Oil Company,
a Union 76 fuel distributor, he would always get to work at least by 6 AM to
make sure everything was in order for the day. He was available 24 hours a day
to the staff and the truck drivers that he worked with. He would frequently
receive telephone calls in the middle of the night with one of his drivers
calling about a problem with the truck or an issue with the delivery and he
would always respond cheerfully and work through the problem. Bob was the kind
of guy that just got things done and he was well respected for this skill.
Bob was a pilot.
His
love for flying was only exceeded by his love for his wife and children. He
obtained his pilot's license at the young age of 17 and continued to build his
expertise and experience throughout his life. He owned several single engine
airplanes and would share his passion with family and friends by taking them on
tours through the clouds. Many trips to grandma's house were in a single engine
Cessna. He made lifelong friends in his aviation circles and spent many a
Sunday morning out at "Vidor International Airport" with Joe Jenkins
drinking coffee and solving the world's problems. Later in life he found the
joy of model airplanes and would spend countless hours building and flying his
masterpieces.
Bob was a good
neighbor.
Often
referred to as the “Mayor of the Neighborhood”, he constantly kept up with the
“goings-on” by maintaining his lawn chair post in the front yard usually with
binoculars in hand. People walking by would stop and chat with Bob about
anything and everything. He was a master at "shooting the breeze, making
everyone feel special along the way.
Bob was love.
Bob
was humble, loving, selfless and kind. His positive attitude just made others
feel likewise optimistic. His genuine interest in learning about everyone that
he met endeared him to so many folks.
And if he gave you a "nickname", you knew he loved you. He will be greatly missed, but never
forgotten, by all who had the good fortune to cross his path.
Survivors
include wife of 66 years, Elizabeth. Children: William and wife Tammi; Donna
and husband Thad Minyard; Frances and husband Scott McGill; Bryan and wife
Rhonda; Robert and wife Dana. Grandchildren: Katy Branch, Darren McGill, Graham
Peavey, Alanna Lott, Bailee Peavey, Kaitlin Peavey, Chelsea Peavey, Marlie
Peavey,
and Emmy McGill and nine great-grandchildren.
A
memorial service for Mr. Peavey will be at 10:00 a.m., Saturday, October 22,
2016, at Broussard’s, 1605 North Major Drive, Beaumont, with a reception
immediately following. A family committal was held at Broussard’s Crematorium.
Bob's
favorite charity that he always donated to was the VFW (Veterans of Foreign
Wars), 406 West 34th Street, Kansas City, Missouri 64111; or online
at http://www.vfw.org. In lieu of flowers, please donate to this
cause to support our men and women overseas.
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