Mary Alice Decuir

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Mable Decuir Rudisill Hamshire, TX July 11, 2013

Just wanted to tell you I miss & love you very much. It's hard to be without you, Bret, Wendy, J.W., Dad & now Eaine has joined her mom, dad, Bob, Tina & Tony. Gee when God started calling our family members home. There are only 2 of your siblings left, only 3 of the 6 children Aunt Joyce & Uncle Burley. I pray your souls are all together giving praise & glory to God our Father.
God is first in my life then family is very important to me, this was taught to me by you & daddy. Thank you & daddy for raising us knowing to praise God, face responsibilities,set goals,live & love,.
Until next time Mom,

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Mable Decuir Rudisill Hamshire, TX October 7, 2012

Hi mom, I'm sitting at the house with Chris . We are watching Dad.! Things aren't looking too good for him. He hasn't really woke in 3 days. Chris had tried to feed him a little but he won't wake up. His breathing is very labored, we just pray he doesn't suffer anymore, he had suffered enough. We are not ready to lose him no more than when we had to let you go. But he is not really living. Maybe God will let you & the angels meet him so he won't be afraid. I love you Mom & miss you deeply. I worry about Chris alot. Being a caregiver to Dad is 24/7 for him & he will be so lost being in this house alone. But Chris is a very special person & more than the rest of your children, he surely had given his life to his parents. I think I did as much as I could especially with you & JW. I sit here most every day even if it's just moral support.

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Mable Decuir Rudisill Winnie, TX July 10, 2012

Hi mom, I love you. Oh moma it is so hard to watch Dad struggling everyday; his dimentia is so, so bad. Chris has devoted his life to take care of Dad as you would have too. I try to stick close by cause Chris needs someone with him. I can't handle Dad anymore but Chris says at least I'm there to talk with him. So I am basically there for moral support. Many at church ask about dad but none ask about Chris. I tell them how Dad is doing but I also let them know that Dad wouldn't know them but that Chris could use the company. Today is J.W.'s birthday, he would have been 66. I thought we had at least a few more years together but it wasn't to be.
I miss you mom and pray for you. I love you.

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Mable Decuir Rudisill Hamshire, TX October 4, 2011

HAPPY BIRTHDAY momma, I love and miss you so much. It's hard not to celebrate your birthday with you. You loved life and really loved celebrating it. You love celebrating on any occassion. Thinking about it now I realize that you kew we were only put on this earth for a little while and what some of us take for granted you never did. I know that your are celebrating with God Our Heavenly Father today and that's how it is meant to be but I can't help but tell you how much I miss you and love you. We are taught so many things about heaven that I'm not sure which is true. Growing up we were taught that when our souls go to heaven we will only think of seeing our Glorified Father. That there would be no more worries. Later in life we are told that our loved ones are united in heaven prasing God together and watching over us. I know that a few times Dad has felt your presence; felt you touch. I know I am selfish but I hope the later is true. That we meet again as a family and give glory and praise to God together.

Happy Birthday Mom again.
I love you,
Mable

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Mable Decuir Rudisill Hamshire, TX August 26, 2011

Hi Mom, just thinking of you today. Chris turned 59 yesterday. Adam & April are going to have a baby in Oct. 2011 but before we could have our little celebration for Chris Adam had to take April to ER in Bmt. to have her checked cause she is having some little problems; hopefully it is nothing serious. So it was just Dad, Monica, Charlene, Laurie, Chris & myself; Markhad to work graveyard shift Thursday night. Mom it does not seem like it has been 7 years that you passed on to eternal liffe with God. It will be 7 yrs. on the 30th of this year. Today is J.W. & my anniversary, it would have been 28 yrs. today. I bet him a darling Bret are giving you a hard time; but I know someday we will all be together again. I love and miss you very much. Dad's dementia starting to progress faster. Thank God for Chris. WOW what a perfect name you gave him as he is truly doing a hard job taking care of Dad but he does it with such love. Keep watching over us and know that I love you.
Mable

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Mable Decuir Rudisill Hamshire, TX April 13, 2011

Hi Mom, just been thinking about you, Bret & JW a lot lately; not that I don't think of you everyday, just some days a a little harder the others. I pray that the three of you are in the glory of our Lord Almighty looking at us from above. Chris surely has his place in heaven with the care he helped give to you after working all day. Now God must be truly blessing him for taking care of Dad. As Dad's dementia worsens he depends on Chris totally; I go sit w/them but Chris can hardly leave the rm. This has been hard on all of us but especially Chris; first you and now Dad. As you know, I miss you Mom. It seemed like you were always disappointed in me. I know I made a lot of mistakes & it is hard for me to forgive myself especially when I look at my three younger siblings; they seem to do everything right, I never did. I always wanted you to find something to be proud of me for but feel like I never measured up. I pray that with the help our Jesus I can feel that you are proud of me someday. I will always love you.

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Mable Marie Rudisill Hamshire, TX February 28, 2011

Hi Mom, I hope you are celebrating JW's new beginnig of eternal love. Don' let him and Bret give you too hard of a time. I miss you so much. Really could use your arms around me right now. I know we are never ready to let a loved one go but God calls them in His time. I just feel lonely without him. The family changed when the Matriarch, you, left us here. Nothing has been the same and I guess it isn't suppose to. Remember we love you so very much.
Sister

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Charlene Decuir Hamshire, TX March 30, 2009

Hey Mom, I went to visit with you yesterday. I was feeling lonely and was missing you and Bret. As I walked through the cemetary, I saw so many that have gone before me that I loved and once share a relationship with. I prayed that God could help me understand why the pain of losing was so heart breaking. I have a string faith, that YOU helped ti instill. I was so lucky to have you for my Mom. I hope I made you proud and I hope you know that I love you dearly! If you ever feel the need, feel free to wrap your arms around me. I am still you baby girl and miss you dearly! Until we speak again, Charlene

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LeaAnn Johnson Austin, TX August 31, 2004

May the Lord be with the Family of Mary Alice Decuir at this time of great loss.

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