Dustin Ray Chaney

Dustin,
You were the one who was always there for me even when times got rough but, now i wonder who will be there for me now that you are gone. I will always remember the time we had together.
until next time,
Ann
i love you

Dustin,
You were my hero and my best freind. I will always remember you as a kind, caring, and loving person. i miss you so much and always remeber you in my heart.
Love always,
Ann

Chaney, you were a good man. You will forever be in my prayers.

Nathan Houk

Dustin,
This may well be the hardest message I have ever written, but I am compelled to do so.

For those who know you, no words can mediate consolation in the consuming awareness of such tragic loss. For those who do not know you, however, the imperative is to recognize and honor your unsurpassed loyalty, relentless courage, and unequalled commitment to personal and professional excellence -- all as demonstrated by your life.

As one of your instructors, I routinely noted the distinct and positive influence your simple presence created among classmates. Articulate, humble, personable, and insightful, you measured experience and academics to a degree exceeded only by your respect for and appreciation of the individuals with whom you came in contact. That is the natural leadership with which you gifted others. In all aspects, you were the motto you espoused so dearly: "Semper Fidelis" ... "always faithful."

I extend my deepest gratitude for the military service and the ultimate sacrifice you awarded to a country you cherished. As I consider my privilege of knowing you to be sacred, know that you do and shall remain warmly in my thoughts.

"What does the Lord ask of you? Only this: that you act justly, love tenderly, and walk humbly with your God."
(Mic 6:8) Well, "little brother," you did what He asked of you; you have passed your final exam.

May the God you love embrace you gently with His infinite Presence and show you the love of those who remain here without you.

Chaney, I'm proud to have served with you and although you were taken too soon, men who have lived longer lives have achieved far less than what you accomplished. God Bless and Semper Fi brother.

At LIT, You were an excellent student with the perfect attitude and aptitude in life. Very few times in an instructor's life does he meet the "one" that he knows had a full past and a bright future. All your classmates looked to you for your dedication, work ethic, experience and knowledge. We will always miss you and the future of America will not be as bright without You. You have made a difference in Your past triumphs and we will think of you every day because of the way You are.

Dustin it has been a long time since we last saw each other. I wish it had not been so. You were a wonderful kid and will be missed. Of that I am sure.

My dear sweet baby boy,

How do I live without you? It's been a week of laughs and tears. Even now, though you are gone, yet you still live in our hearts and our minds. I don't think anyone really realized the true amount of suffering you endured, except me. Even at that, I believe in my heart you were even hiding things from me and you were facing a lifetime of pain an suffering you couldn't endure. I can promise you this...until I take my last breath and we meet again, there will NEVER be a day that goes by that I won't think about you and keep fighting for those who still suffer from the traumas they received from their sacrifices and service. It's unjust, it's unfair, and it's a disgrace to their character. It's because of you and thousands of others that choose to walk a path noone else would that makes this country great. Semper Fi, my love. For you, I am happy and joyful that you have no more suffering or pain. You now reside with the Great Marine, the Great Warrior who gave his son's life for us all, God Almighty, so that we may live with Him in glory for all eternity. I'll see you soon...
Mom

I am sorry that I could not be there but just as Dustin knows from serving proudly with the military as I am doing now, they don't like letting us take leave for anyone who is not a close blood relative. I consider John Scott my brother and along with that I consider all of his family part of my own so even though I am not part of the family I am effected as if I was family. As soon as I can make it home again I will be paying my respects.

Dustin was more to me than a cousin he was an older brother who taught me alot, even though we have not seen much of each other the past few years many of his words still ring in my ears and he still lives in everyones dreams. I miss him greatly and I know everyone does i am no different. My wishes and sincere prayers go out to my aunt, grandmother, mother, and the rest of the family so that we may stand strong as we get used to him no physically being her anymore.

with much Love to everyone,
John

Gloria, I am so sorry for your loss. He was a great person. You can be proud of raising a son like Dustin. We will miss him. My prayers are with you.

John Worthy

Gloria,

Gloria, Please know that I am praying for you during this extremely difficult time. Only God can truly understand all that you are going through. Just cling to Him and His promises. His shoulders are big enough for all your tears and frustrations. May you feel His loving arms around you!

my thoughts and prayers are with all of you,

Gloria,
My heartfelt prayers are with you and your loved ones. While I did not have the pleasure of meeting Dustin, knowing you and hearing you talk about him tells me a lot. Know that God has a MASTER plan and that all will work out according to His will. I am privileged to have you as a friend and will be here for you always.

Edward

Gloria,
My heartfelt prayers are with you and your loved ones. While I did not have the pleasure of meeting Dustin, knowing you and hearing you talk about him tells me a lot. Know that God has a MASTER plan and that all will work out according to His will. I am privileged to have you as a friend and will be here for you always.

Edward

We have you all in our prayers and know he is now where we all want to be.

Sincerely,

David Ashworth

GLORIA,
MY HEART BREAKS FOR YOU . I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVED DUSTIN & I CANT IMAGINE YOUR GRIEF . REMEMBER I LOVE YOU & IM PRAYING FOR YOU & THE GIRLS EVERYDAY.

KAYLA,
I KNOW WE HAVE ONLY BEEN FRIENDS A FEW SHORT MONTHS BUT IT WAS MORE THAN OBVIOUS HOW MUCH YOU & DUSTIN WERE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER.YOU & COLE ARE IN MY PRAYERS & IM HERE FOR YOU ANYTIME YOU NEED .
LOVE, LESLIE

Dear Gloria,

Sheri and I are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. It sounds like he was quite a special guy. You must be very proud of him. We are thinking of you during this very sad time...

Fondly,
Whitney and Sheri

My Dearest Gloria, Beverly and Chaney Family,

I am deeply saddened by our loss. You have raised an outstanding young man who was such a blessing to all who met and knew him. I am so glad God allowed me to have such a wonderful "mom" relationship with him. Who could ever forget his magnetic personality and charm. Words cannot express how much I will miss him especially during "hallelujah" church. The Lord is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Ps. 46:1 Trust in the Lord God with all thine heart and lean not unto your own understanding, in all thy ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path. Prov. 3:5

Yours in Christ,
Carla

Mandy, Girls and the Chaney Family, I am so sorry to hear about Chaney. My daughter lost her daddy when she was young also, it truely was a hard and emotional time. Mandy God will help you get through this you have a large and close family as well as a multitude of friends keep your faith trust in the Lord. Always remember we are here for you. Aunt Sandy

Lil Brother,

I have thought about many things over the past few days and it has not been easy. It is hard to understand these kinds of things, maybe I never will. I do know that Jana and I will miss you very much.

Brian, Lee and I always considered you a brother and a part of our famliy. If we were doing something fun, crazy, or even a little stupid, you were always there laughing with us. That is what brothers do together. I remember so many great times and it breaks my heart that you are gone. But, I know deep inside that you will always be there with us telling Brian he is a chicken and won't do it, or making me do it because I'm the big brother. It was always funny because in the end, you always went first just in case something funny happened.

You have my word I will watch over Brian and make sure he is OK, but you need to check in from time to time to see how I'm doing. We will miss you so much. Rest easy lil bro.

We love you,
Jason and Jana

All Dustin's Family,
I am lost for words at the news of your loss.
I try to call home from Haiti almost every night and the news of Dustin's death from Janet was something I just could not hardly believe. I am so sorry for this trajic loss to your family. I only wish I could be there to tell you how sad I am but at the same time glad that Dustin was a Christian and will receive all the glories of knowing Jesus Christ.
May God surround your family during this time and heal all hurts.
I know that Dustin will be home with his Lord and will know no pain or ills from now on!
God be with each and everyone who is grieving due to this sudden loss of a great young man.
I will pray for you family and ask the Lord to watch over you all,
James Bilberry

Chaney-You are a great friend, and we will miss you every day. I'm glad we have so many good memories. I can't think of any time we were with you that we weren't laughing at one of your stories or jokes. To your mom and the rest of your family- We are so sorry for your loss, and we are praying for you. Love, Hillary and Brandon

Mandy, Ms. Chaney, and Girls,
This is a sad an dispearing time for each an everyone of you. Just know that you all are in our prayers and that we love you very much. Mandy, stay strong for your girls always help them to remember the good times with thier dad and that their dad loved them so very much as you do. Just always remember that you do not stand alone that we are all here for you and the girls. Ms. Chaney, I am so sorry to hear about Chaney. May the lord be with you, and we will keep you in our prayers.
Belinda Espinoza

To the Chaney Family; Remember all that you need is in Jesus! He is your comforter during your time of sorrow! I am praying for your strength. Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal! Love, Marcella Young

WHAT A GOOD MAN.
Hearts are heavy but memories can be strong.
That beautiful smile, a harm heart and that old worn & torn cap! He is precious in our memories.
God Bless you Gloria and those grandbabies.

Prayers are with you always. Lisa Harris

Dustin was in my College Success Skills class at LIT during his first semester. He was an excellent student who told me he wanted to be a border patrol agent. I remember him fondly. My life is richer for having known him.

Gloria,

I am so sorry to hear about Chaney, I know how much you loved him and how much he loved you. Chaney was an awesome fun loving guy and I am proud to have known him.. My prayers are with you and his.

Blake-

Kayla

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I know your mom hurts for you and feels she can't help ease your pain. Just know she and your family love you so and want to be there for you.

Mr. Wooten and I will be praying for Dustin's family and for you. Hold on to memories and family.

To Chaney's family,
Thank you for allowing Patriot Guard Riders-Golden Triangle to Stand Tall and Silent for his service to our country in the US Marine Corp. His life may have been cut short, but God needed another Marine to watch over the Veterans serving abroad and stateside. May God comfort and bless each of you...may you know Chaney will never be forgotten.

Glory, I do not know what to say - I loved Dustin so much and have so many amazing memories from Trinity Lutheran Church. Dustin had one of the biggest smiles, hearts for people and loved to make me laugh. He was a good friend to go to when I needed someone to back me up. I trust in the Lord's beautiful plan of redemption shown on the cross of Christ that leaves us all filled with the hope that we will be with Dustin, and Jesus once again. Dustin will always be remembered for his service, sacrifices and for being an amazing person. If you need anything, please let me know. I love you both very much.

Gloria & Family,
We all go through life expecting to bury our parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc., but nobody ever expects to bury their child. Nobody can truly understand what it feels like until they have been in your shoes. You are all in my prayers. P.S. Dustin, the day will come when we will meet again. R.I.P. Love, Andy

Mandy,
I would like to say how sorry I am to hear about Chaney! Tell the girls that I love them and that their dad will always be looking out for them. I know that you feel sad too, but know that you were loved once by him also. Give the girls hugs and kisses. Mandy stay strong for the beautiful girls that was created through the love that yall had. This is to Chaney thank you for the two wonderful things that you helped bring into our lives, we are blessed every day with their wonderful smiles and love. May you rest in peace and watch over your girls, until their time comes. love, Jonathan

Gloria,
Please know that you are always in our prayers.
May angles surround Dustin, and saints welcome him in pease.
May Dustin gase upon the Lord, face to face, and taste the
blessedness of perfect rest.
Charlie

Gloria,
I was shocked and so sad to hear about Dustin's death. I know he was the light of your life. Your family and your "Marine family" will be such a help in getting you through this terrible time. But your strong faith and the knowledge that Dustin is with God our Father will sustain you during times that you think you won't be able to go on.
You will remain in my thought and prayers.

Cathy Lien

Dear Gloria, Beverly, Martha & Ray Jr.,

Words could never express the shock and sadness I felt for you when Martha called and told me Dustin was gone.

I remember the graduation party Berith had for Dustin with the family and what a fine young man he had grown to be. I still remember him when he was about 8 or 9 and we had family get-to-gethers at Uncle Oscar and Aunt Agnes' home in Katy.
He was such a sweet little boy.

He was in my daily prayers when he was in Iraq and prayers of thankfulness when he returned safely. As many have said, God has His plan, and now Dustin is with his grandpa, uncle Clifford and Uncle Don and many relatives and friends who were waiting for him.

You are all in my prayers and let me know if there is anything I can do, beside pray for you all.

Love you all, Aunt Bettie Ann

Gloria, Aunt Beverly and family,
We were shocked and deeply saddened and want you to know that we pray everyday for you all. The Linscombs have always been like an extension of our own family and I want you to know that we'll always be there for you. We love you.

The Saldana's

Andy, Monique, Anne-Marie and Natalie

KAYLA ,
IM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE LOSS OF YOUR LOVE ONE. I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR BOTH FAMILIES. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU.

WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY
MIRANDA

Dearest Gloria and family:

There are no words that can express our deepest sympathies to you and your family. Only your faith and our faith in God will get us through this. And thank God for our faith, which He has given us!

I believe God will take this tragedy and use it to open a door or create a miracle in your life or someone elses. It may already be happening.

We lift you and your family up in our prayers. Hold on to your faith, and God will get you through this.

In Christ's Love,
Mitchell & Susie Koop

Chaney,
From the moment I met you, you have been like a big brother to me. I never forget you standing by sis's side during her pregnancy. Most of my favorite memories are of this year. Staying up all night Christmas Eve teaching sis how to wrap presents and watching you put Cole's bike together. I will never forget when you told me that you were going to build a room for me at ya'lls new house, but if I brought a guy home he was sleeping in the garage. You were always protecting me just like a big brother. The most important thing to me is how much you loved my sister and Cole. Even though he was not technically yours, you always treated him like he was your son. I will miss you and you will always be my favorite brother in law.

Kay Kay,
I love you so much, and it kills me that you have to go through this. I know Chaney was the love of your life, and anyone who was ever around ya'll knew ya'll were already like a married couple. You know you little sis is always here for you no matter what. I love you.

Gloria, Thank you for raising such a fine man as Chaney. Charlie and I fell honored that we got to know him and that we had the pleasure of spending time with him on his visits home with Kevin. He had such a contagious smile and a great since of humor. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of his family. He will be sorely missed.

i am unfortunately unable to attend the funeral for my fellow marine, but i would like his family to know he was a great man and a good friend, may he rest in piece.

Dustin,
When I heard that you were gone I was numb. After ten long years of no contact with you a random picture from a prom where we had so much fun appeared on Facebook. Something told me to speak to you and I did. It was so great catching up and I could hear through your messages how happy you were...especially with your beautiful girls. Three days after that short chat with you, you left us to be with the Lord. I'm so happy to have talked with you before you left. You will be missed. Mrs. Chaney, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

With love and sympathy,
Monica K.

For the 22 years I served in the United States Navy I have known many Marines. They hold the honor and distinction of being called Marines. To Dustin, he held this honor with proud esteem and a source of pride that made him who he was and how he will be remembered always.

As a Chief who sent Marines to places to protect our freedoms and to do what our country needed. I leave this important verse of a well known hymn that is sung by Sailors and Marines to protect them in all their endvours. This is for Dustin:

Eternal Father, grant, we pray,
To all Marines, both night and day,
The courage, honor, strength, and skill
Their land to serve, thy law fulfill;
Be thou the shield forevermore
From every peril to the Corps.

Protect him Lord.
Your name we pray
Amen.

Dear Gloria, Beverly and all your extended family,

Our hearts aches for you...especially for you, Gloria and for those precious little girls. I can't even imagine the pain you must be feeling. If it were only a bad dream.

The ways of our gracious Lord are impossible to understand. As difficult as it is, we just hang on to His promises that all things work together for our good though at the present we're tempted to doubt. We know that His will is that all people live in heaven. Somehow He is using Dustin's life and death for someone's eternal benefit.

May God grant you the comfort, peace, courage, love and joy that only He can give. Joy in the assurance that you will see your beloved son again.

With prayers and sincere sympathy,
Pat and Louis

There are no words to describe the emotions involved with losing one of my dearest friends. Chaney is a son any mother would be proud of, a father any child would be lucky to have, and a man that any person was blessed to have known. I thank God that I was one of those people that had the pleasure of knowing him.

May he sit at the right hand of God and pray upon those of us still here and guide us in the way He would want us to go.

God Bless....we love you, Chaney!!!

Kayla,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You, Cole and Dustin's girls and family are in our thoughts and prayers. Just remember he will always be watching over you and taking care of you even if it is from Heaven.

Gloria,

You are in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord hold you close and comfort you through his Holy Spirit.

With my deepest sympathy,
Mary West

Its hard to express the loss that all of our family is dealing at this time. Dustin was very loved by all of us. He always had a big smile on his face and open arms for a big hug. Our heart and prayers go out to everyone that is affected by his loss.

We love you
The Barton Family

Dustin,

Hey you. When I heard the news it was so unbelievable. You have got to be one of the funniest people I have ever met! You blessed all of us with so many unforgettable memories and you will be missed so much! I won't ever forget how you used to pump people up at our Pep Rally's! That was soooo awesome! You will never be forgotten and there will never be another Chaney! RIP and thanks for all the funny things you did that no one will ever forget! Love ya! Amber.

Dear Dustin.
I will always remember you telling me I should join the. Marines. Then you and mom (your Aunt Sandra) always got into a play argument. I will remember that forever. You always took time to talk to me and answer any question I had about the Marines. I will miss you a lot.

Your cousin William

I am going to miss you Chaney. Even though you and I had a few verbal altercations in Ramadi, Iraq on our second deployment, your funny side never ceased to make us smile. Brothers every now and then wont agree on some things, but in the end brothers will always remember that they are brothers, especially when under fire. You were one of the best Marines I ever had the privilege of fighting along side with. May God bless you and your family. Semper Fi Cpl Dustin Chaney.

Gloria,
I am very sorry for your loss. I am sure you were very pround of such a fine young man.

Our Prayers are with the family and friends, My wife and I had a great time with you in Vegas for UFC 100, Dustin you will be missed buddy..

Chad & Jen Stegall

Words can't express the deep sadness I feel. You are a brother to me and will always be loved. We shared so many good memories together, from Boondock Saints and barbeques, to hungover C130 flights and softball games in Ramadi.

My deepest condolences go out to the family of Dustin. It was an honor to have known and served our country with such an amazing man.

Love you brother. Semper Fi!

Dear Kayla, I am sincerely sorry for your loss. I have only known you and Chaney for a few months. Through learning about your relationship, I knew one thing for sure....You both Loved each other very much !! I really enjoyed meeting Chaney at your Birthday party....he was so charming, I will never forget him sewing that button on his shirt !!! He said that he was going to have to teach you to sew! I cannot imagine losing the love of my life, and the relationship with his two beautiful daughters, and the father figure Cole loves, and all of your hopes and dreams for the future in the blink of an eye. Even though you had no legal paper to connect you to Chaney, everyone knows that you were his soulmate, and that he would want you treated as such during this hard time for you and his remaining family. May God bless you with strength to get through this Sorrowful time. You need to remember that Cole needs you to help him get through the loss also. I believe that Chaney will always be looking out for you and Cole , as he was doing here up until he bacame your Angel.

With my deepest Sympathy........Mary

We were so sorry to hear of Dustin's passing. He was a fine and very upstanding young man and a pleasure to know. J. A. and I will definitely remember all of his family in our prayers and know God will give comfort and a place to come for understanding. Much love to Dustin's family.

Gloria,
I am so saddened to hear about Dustin. I can't imagine the feeling a mother has to lose her only child. I held my son Hayden for hours after I heard. It makes you realize how precious and short life is. Dustin is in such a glorious place now and is so much happier than we could ever imagine. Through your tears and saddness remember that you were the most important person in his life. I have so many memories of youth trips, and church camp, and fundraisers we did. He always spoke about how much he loved ou, how much you did for him, and how happy you always made him. He loved you so much, and when he had his little girls they were right up there on that same pedastool he had you on. You all will continue to be in my prayers.

We Love you all,
Amanda Willand & Hayden

My prayers go out to your family....Dustin could always make you smile and had a beautiful soul. I pray that God gives you the strength to get through this time.......

My dear Dustin;
When I think of you it is always with a smile or giggle about something you have said or done. You entertained us all with your jokes, actions and charm. Oh that charm, you could get your way with anyone when you turned on that charm.....your Mom and I have talked about that many times. You had her wrapped around your finger and you loved it, so did she if the truth be told. Your Mom loved you as much as any one person could possibly love another. She was SO proud of you that at times she could not find the words to express it. Thank you for being such a good Son to her, Mom's can survive anything if they know their kids love them, and she knew you did. You are a child of God first though and I know you loved God, therefore, we will see you again. Keep an eye out for us down here until we meet again. Please meet me at the pearly gate on my way up with that big smile of yours. My all love, Bambi

You will be missed my brother. Semper Fidelis

Gloria, we cannot fully understand the pain you are feeling at this time. We can only stand ready to offer what litte comfort we may have as you and Dustin's children travel this journey. Please know that God IS in control and all happens within His perfect will. Although we have only met a few times over the years, if ever there is anything you think I may could do for your family, I will certainly do my best. I hope that God's peace will surround you in the days to come.

I would like to give my condolensces to the family and his closet friends. May God bless you.

James Templeton

I didn't know you long, but will surely miss you from here on out. It will definitely be quieter and less entertaining at work. God bless you and your family.

Chaney,

Words cannot express the pain and loss everyone is feeling without you here. You most definately left a lasting impression on everyone. Alot of us went our seperate ways after high school, but the memories you gave me while in school will last forever. You were so funny!! I remember all the fun times we had when we were with Monica and I was with Craig. We sure did have some fun! I miss those days.

We tend to get wrapped up in the chaos of life and often forget to tell those we love just how much we care about them. I am thankful that I got to run into you last week. Before then, it had been a couple years since we talked. It was great catching up with you and seeing how good you were doing. The way you talked about your precious babies will stay with me forever. You trully were a great father, and that shined in you. You would do anything for your girls.

It's been a sad and hard weekend for everyone close to you, and the tears are sure to keep flowing until we can reach some peace with this. Things just dont make sense sometimes. I do know, that you probably have God and all his Angels laughing uncontrollably at your jokes and sense of humor. Your little girls, and the ones closest to you are in our prayers. I hope you see how much you really meant to everyone down here. You were a blessing to those who knew you. Can't wait to see your smiling face again one day.... We love you!!!

Colby, Heather, & Madison Meza

Marine,
When we got the phone call that you were gone, I was in shock. Just thinking back, that on Mother's Day we spent an hour together talking about random stuff and now you're gone. But I know what you're doing. Right now you and Chesty Puller are up there with Saint Peter guarding the gates of heaven. I remember the first day that we met. You noticed my Marine Corps sticker on my truck and addressed me as Staff Seargeant before you even knew who I was. Ironically our paths had already crossed through Kayla and Ashley. The Corps is a great thing and it brought us together as friends before our family did. I think of the tours you served and the great things that you accomplished in your short time here with us. Your family, friends and this great nation are truly proud to call you our son, our friend and our brother. Please know that your girls love you with all your heart and that Kayla and Cole will be very well taken care of. You were the closest thing to a father that boy has ever known and you have done a remarkable job with him.
Marine, I know from experience that we do as Marines helps us in life as civilians. I know that your service made you a better man and a great father.
Trust me when I say that I felt great pain in my heart when I found out, but I knew that you were going to be greatly taken care of. I'm not going to say that you leaving is unfair to the ones you left behind, because of what you did to protect everyone you love and preserve their way of life is more than anyone could ever ask for. You have done a great deed to your family and friends.
I will look our flag and know that another one of God's Marines has been called home to defend Heaven know that he has defened our country.
You will forever be in my thoughts, my prayers and forever in my brotherhood.
To a great friend and an even better Marine,
OOH-RAH!

Semper Fi and God Bless You Cpl. Chaney,

SSgt. Trice D. Luker
USMC

To the Chaney and Linscomb families: Our most heartfelt and deepest sympathy is extended to all of you at this most difficult time. We, along with many of Dustin's former LHS classmates and his current friends, are deeply saddened and shocked by the news of this loss of such a fine, friendly, and honorable young man, who was also a most devoted and loving father of his two beautiful girls. We also extend to you our prayers of peace and comfort in the days ahead.. From your former neighbors on Laurie Lane , Laurie and Wayne Thomas

Gloria,

I feel like I have been slugged in the stomach and I can only imagine how you must feel.

Times like this ..do make me question why some of us are left here to go through the motions and others, who have their whole life ahead of them, like Dustin, are taken from us. But we have to hold on to the fact that "God has a plan".

Please, please remember..you have the memories..27 yrs of memories and no one and nothing can take that from you.
When you feel you just can't go on anymore, close you eyes and go to a favorite memory. God and the memories will see you through!! LIVE IN THE MEMORIES!!

I love you, call me if you need me for anything.

Charlotte

Chaney, we will forever miss your presence here at the shop. I looked forward to all your funny Pawnshop post on Facebook. Watching all the guys play XBOX. You stole a piece from our hearts when you left, but we know you are in a better place and no longer suffering. It is going to take eternity to get use to be here without you, but we know you live in our hearts. Love and miss you. Leeann Bertrand and Greg Henderson. LSSP II

To all of the family: Dustin will always be in our hearts. He was an amazing young man and a wonderful father to his sweet girls. We have watched him grow up over the years and all of the wonderful things he has done. Dustin was truly an angel sent from heaven to be with us all. It is so very sad that he was taken from us way before we think he should have been. God apparently needed him home. Dustin will definitly leave behind some awesome memories and a family that loves him dearly. We will all miss him and his beautiful smile. May God comfort you and give you strength during this difficult time. Your extended family & friends love all of you very much.

Kayla-
It was obvious being around you and Chaney how much he loved you and Cole. He was a wonderful father to both his girls, and Cole. Just two weeks ago he was talking about the ring he wanted to buy you and the house you both were buying. Do not ever forget the unconditional love he gave to you and Cole. We are all thankful to have had him in our life for the amount of time we knew him. Trice and I want you to know that we will be here for you any time, day or night. The Millican family can open our arms pretty wide so keep that in mind. We all love you very much and will miss a wonderful Man.
God Bless & Semper Fi
Trice & Ashley Luker

Chaney, you will be VERY missed. I love you and will never forgot your smile (and your silly dance moves!). God bless your family and your little angels. Watch over us and please always keep smiling.

D,

I wish I knew the words to say. From the monster truck rallys, to singing in your mom's living room like Brooks & Dunn, fishing in Crystal Beach, Little League at Candlelight, we grew up together. It was a true Aggie vs Longhorn. Goin to your high school graduation in Lumberton, visiting at A&M. Everything seems so long ago. But i remember them like it were yesterday. I remember the day my mom told me you were going to Iraq. I knew you wanted to serve your country and you did just that. I dont know of another individual that was more proud and determined to defend what he believed in and as a citizen I could never repay you for that. May you rest peacefully. Watch over all of us until we meet again.

Kev

Gloria,

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I am thinking of you and praying for you, and I hope that God will help you in this time. I'm here if you need me.

Love you,
Michelle

The life that I and Dustin had together are forever in my heart. I see him in my memories everyday. This was a second son that I cherished. So loving and so smart. I was so proud when I saw him graduation day in San Diego from Basic training. I was elated to see you become a father. And your and Matt's stories are forever engrained in my mind. You continued to live your life even through the gratest strifes. Even with PTSD and a heart that was giving way, you continued to smile and take care of your family. Two beutiful girls are here for us to share and we thank you for that. I will miss everything we went through, and I will miss that loving smile today and everyday for the rest of my life. I am lucky in that I will continue to hear your stories through the great networking of friends that care so much for you and your sidekick Matt. And everytime I replace a windshield wiper.

Dustin,
Wow, I don't even know where to begin... The selfish nature we all have wants me to ask, "why him, why so young?" but then I realize that you were called to duty, to watch over us. It's hurts to know that such a good friend has been taken from us, but you have stolen a special place in all our hearts, and we are all truley blessed! I have so many good memories of you but the one that sticks out the most is how excited I got when I saw your eyes light up when we found out we were in the same unit on Camp Pendleton! You were an amazing friend and your family will be in my prayers and heart, and I can't wait to see you again some day! Love you Chaney!
Love,
Jamie

Dear Gloria,
My heart goes out to you for your loss. I know he was your greatest joy. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I will be out of town but will see you when I get back.

Gloria and Beverly and family,
You're in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you with your memories of Dustin and give you peace during this difficult time. Dustin was a fine young man who served his country. We know he was a blessing to your family as well. Please accept our sympathy from the entire Heiner family.

I met you at age 12 when you & your mother Gloria moved from Houston to Lumberton. It was during a little league BB tryout where I made you my first pick. after seeing your determination, effort, and positive attitude, I knew we had to have you on our team. You proved to be one of the important kegs in the wheel (soul) of the team that gave us a personality which eventully became the heart & soul of our team not only with your support & hustle, but your good nature and refreshing ability to make everyone laugh.

I also remember that night at the beach when you had so many questions about becoming a Marine someday. I tried to answer all your questions about what it meant to be a US Marine. And in that discussion, trying to expalin to a very curious young man that although the Marine Corps had the best preperation & survival combat trainning; the one concern I had was the inability for always being successful at trainging young 18-19 year old men to handle the mental anguish that is the real part of a combat conflict. When your enemy has no moral or principaled value system when it comes to human life; the principals God has placed on the lives He's given to all His creation. An enemy that would sacrifice a child, often times their own child, to wound/kill innocent people in order to mame or kill a few Americans.

I tried to speak to you about what's now known as Post Tramatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). After war, it's a long road back in the PTSD healing process. My tour was from 1967 to 1971; The battle with PTSD is still ongoing.

But you wanted to make a difference in the world & defend the principals of the United States so you enlisted in the USMC. When your mother told me about your enlistment & then fussed at me when you shipped out to Iraq all I could do was beg her forgivness yet telling her how proud all that knew you should be for your personal sacrifice & love of country.

May God bless you & your family and keep everyone that's been touched by your life, in the hollow of His hand.

Dustin,

My prayers go out to you, another special fallen Marine. Semper Fidelius

Dennis Thomas

Gloria,

So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. May God's comforting arms envelop you at this difficult time.
Love,

You church member---Pam Viator

Chaney you will be missed. I just recently came across the notes we used to pass back and forth in middle school. Those were the days. Your family will forever be in my prayers.

Baby words cannot explain how much i miss you!!! You affected my life in so many ways and i thank god everyday for letting me spend the time I could with you..A day will not go by that I wont think of you.. Your smile, always making me laugh and how great of a father you were... I cant wait till my time comes and i can jump in your arms.. love you always and FOREVER!!

Dustin I had the honor of serving with you in Iraq and am so proud of everything you did for our country. I have nothing but great memories of you both on and off the battlefield. I was completley heartbroken when I heard the news that you had gone on to Heaven. Rest in Peace my brother and know that you will be missed forever. Semper Fi.
Victor

Our heartfelt sympathies and condolences go out to Chaney's family and precious little girls. He was one heck of a Man/Daddy and will be sadly missed.
"What the caterpillar perceives is the end, to the butterfly is just the begining." (Anon)
May the glory of God shine through!
We <3 you Chaney

Dustin,

I didn't know you personally but I know your Aunt Martha from Redeemer Lutheran Church. I remember including you in prayers for our military on Sundays. I am praying for your family at this time. May God be with you all during this difficult time.

Chaney you will be missed by us all. I remember the times that you came over to my house in your shaggin wagon. You always had a great smile and made everyone laugh.Our prayers are with your family .

Dustin.such a unique young man. Full of life and proud to be a Marine. I will miss seeing you sitting on the tailgate of your truck with your dog waiting for your Mom to come home. You will be greatly missed.My prayers are with your family for the days ahead.Peace be with you,neighbor and friend,

In the year we knew Chaney, we felt as we had known him our entire life. He was an ABSOLUTELY AMAZING person! Thank you Chaney, for donating your time to coach Little League. Thank you Chaney, for your service to our great country. Thank you Chaney; for the opportunity to know you. Until we meet again..farewell.
Sending many prayers to family and friends.

Gloria, I am so very sorry for your loss, I enjoyed working with Dustin over the past two years. He made being at the pawnshop alot more fun. Always smiling and cutting up. I sure am going to miss him. Chaney loved those girls more than anything in this world. You done a great job raising him because he was the most noble, honest, friendly person I have ever meet. My son adored Him and was looking foward to working with him this summer. My deepest condolences to you and the girls. We are here if you need us. I will truly miss him forever.

Chaney, I want to thank you for always being exactly what GOD put you on this earth to be, a Great Friend. For the past 15+ years that is what you have been to me. I have so many memories of our friendship, from riding our bikes through "Rabbits" yard to go to Miller's in 8th grade, High School Football, sand volley ball at Cobb's house, working together at the Pawn Shop, Softball Games, Yell Leading and Dancing at my Wedding. Everyone who had the privilege of spending 5 minutes with you could see your soul and knew that you were an honest and good person. I thank GOD that I was lucky enough to spend much more than 5 minutes with you. I will miss you dearly my good friend, you will never be forgotten in my mind, memories, and in my heart. RIP

Where do I start? I will never forget all of the great times we shared together, and the never ending laughter each time! You were an amazing friend and an outstanding father! It's hard to come by someone with such a huge caring heart as you had! You are in a better place now, safe and sound! My prayers go out to the girls, your family, and all of our friends. I love you Chaney and will forever miss your presence!!!
*Always & Forever*
Rachel Sundgren-Gray

Dear Gloria, Beverly, Martha, and all the extended family and friends of Dustin,

Although it has been 5 years since I have worked at Redeemer I remember your family and Dustin well and have fond memories of him and of each of you. My heart is breaking to know that you are all suffering such a tragic loss. Dustin will always be remembered in the hearts of so many people who loved him so much and I know that you are all proud of him and all that he accomplished in his short time here on earth. Heaven is receiving one special man! You are all in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything that any of you need please don't hesistate to call on me. God's Blessings and Love to you all.

Jennifer (Brown) McCollough
Former RLCC teacher and Redeemer Church Nursery Worker

Gloria and family, My deepest sympathy to all of you in the loss of dear Dustin. May God's love surround you at this time and comfort you all.

Dustin, I'm proud of you! You served our country faithfully and bravely and you are one of our heroes! God Bless!

Love to all,
Claire

Gloria, Beverly, and Dustin's loving family,
Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for you guys. Dustin was such a fine young man. I never saw him without that contagious smile. He was such an honorable young person and he will be so sorely missed. You all are in our thoughts and in our prayers.
The Easons Randy, Darla, Isaac and Elijah

I still can not believe you are gone! The only way I am getting through this is thinking about what an AWESOME Guardian Angel we all have now!! This Monday when Clay pitches will not be the same without talking/texting to you through out the game! It will be the first time ever! I know you will make Heaven an even better place than it is, and can not wait to see you again! RIP!
Love,
Jared, Ashleigh, and Brynlee Lavergne

Chaney you will truely be missed. Our prayers are with your 2 precious girls, family, Kayla, and all your friends who will miss you dearly. I love you and will never forget you. See u soon friend!!!
Love
Ashleigh and Seth Jones

Dustin was a one of those very special people that would bring a smile to your heart from the moment you even thought of him. He will be missed. His life was about making people laugh. We also will always have a debt we can never repay for his service as an American Hero to our Country as a United States Marine. Dustin, we love you.