Ralph W. Hawkins, Jr.

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Piper Noone Roberts Beaumont, TX August 5, 2005

I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I have just heard the bad news. I will keep your family in my prayers. Your dad always made me feel at home during the summers "redecorating", he always told me to just do as I wish with his house and he will love whatever we did. He was truely a wonderful man and such a kind hearted Aggie!!! Piper

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Clyde Dooley Gramercy, LA July 26, 2005

Kyle, Ryan, family, and friends: Mere words cannot convey the sadness I feel at the loss of your Dad. As his brother-in-law, I shared a special place in his life that I will always treasure. We shared the common challenges of raising a family and how proud he was of his two sons. Of all the blessings in his life, none was more meaningful to him than the two of you. Anyone that met Ralph could sense that he was a special person, and left his presence better for the experience. He lived his life as he saw fit, and didn't ask permission from anyone to do so. I admired his character, his independence, his determination, and his sense of humor. Now it is your turn to follow his example and to touch others' lives. Remember, that anyone can be a father, but it takes a special person to be a Dad. I am very grateful to Ralph and to your family for the kindness you have given me. Best wishes, Clyde Dooley, Tristan Dooley, and Erin Dooley.

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Steven Floyd Corpus Christi, TX July 25, 2005

Sorry to hear about your loss. I only recall meeting your dad once and that was during a job interview. He was neat guy. Sicne I know Kyle is a carbon copy of his Dad's personality, he must have been a fun guy.

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Helen Dexter Houston, TX July 23, 2005

Kyle and Ryan....Darcy, Daylan and Dara. Oh, how I am going to miss Uncle Ralph! My heart is with you. Ralph was the brother I never had and we stayed in touch throughout the years (40+). Ralph could be counted on to always (and I mean always) brighten your day with a smile and a story. I can't tell you how many times just thoughts of him bring a welcome ray of sunshine into my life. He loved his family and his Aggies above everything. When we talked he shared so many warm stories about Daylan and Dara. It is so difficult for me to write, knowing I will never hear his voice on the other end of the phone or hear his stories again (although I remember most of them). I will carry a multitude of heartfelt memories and experiences of your dad and your mom with me forever. Your mom taught me how to fold diapers and your dad taught me how to make coke roast! What a legacy! There is a place in my heart reserved just for them. They loved you so much and were the prime example of parenthood. You boys and your families are always welcome in my home and I hope I see you both soon. The picture you chose is the best! I was out of the country this week so I didn't make it to the services but I was there in spirit. Love from "Aunt" Helen

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Glenn Austin, TX July 22, 2005

I'm so sorry for your loss Ryan, my hearts there with you brother.

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Jack R McCown Houston, TX July 22, 2005

Ralph was always the life of the party. I have missed Marsha at past functions and Ralph will be missed. I wish God to be with his family at this time.

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Sarah Carswell Kingwood, TX July 22, 2005

Your Dad was the first person we met on Orgain Street when we moved to Beaumont Oct, '73. We made the connection immediately that we were from Lufkin & yes, we knew the Shamburgers. That was so Ralph making you feel welcome. We still eat "Ralph Dip" & always talk about Ralph playing the Aggie War Hymn at midnight on New Years Eve so all the neighbors could hear it. If Richard & I can stay up to midnight this New Years Eve, we will play it in his honor. I love you Guys, Sarah Carswell

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Michael Beaver DC, VA July 22, 2005

I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

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Guillermo (Memo) Vela Laredo, Texas 78043, TX July 22, 2005

To THE FAMILY OF RALPH W. HAWKINS, JR.: Even though it has been years that I saw or talked to Ralph, I want to express my deepest regrets in his death. We were classmates and considered him a good friend.I remember him well with Marsha at his side during special occasions.They were inseperable. He was everybody"s friend. May God bless you all. Memo Vela

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Craig Lively Beaumont, TX July 22, 2005

The picture of Ralph is the way I'll always remember him. We will all miss Ralph.

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Dana Stanley Torres Austin, TX July 21, 2005

Ryan, I just want you to know that I love you and hold you close to my heart right now! My prayers are with you and your family. I wish I could have known your dad.

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Susan & Drew Stokola Austin, TX July 21, 2005

Ryan, Our hearts are with you our dear, dear friend! Anyone who knew your dad knew that his greatest joy was his family. We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you, Susan and Drew

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Susan & Drew Stokola Austin, TX July 21, 2005

Ryan, Our hearts go out to you our dear, dear friend! Anyone who knew Ralph knew that his greatest joy was his family. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you, Susan & Drew

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Elizabeth Smith Austin, TX July 21, 2005

Dear Ryan, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of great loss. I did not have the pleasure of meeting your father, but the video shows a man full of life and love for his family. I am so sorry for your loss. With all our love, David and Elizabeth Smith

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Ahron & Paul Couey Austin, TX July 21, 2005

Ryan, our hearts ache for you brother. You know Ahron and I are here for you anytime. We Love you.

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Brian Ferry Austin, TX July 21, 2005

Ryan- I can now see where you get that great smile and outlook on life. My thoughts go to you and your family. Remember all the good times as Ralph will always be there.

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Tom & Regina Walters Austin, TX July 21, 2005

It's an honor to be in the close-knit circle of friends brought together to celebrate Ralph's life.

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Jason Simon Beaumont, TX July 21, 2005

A true loss of a lover of life, family, and friends. He healed our bumps and bruises with "Monkeys Blood" and fed us "Alligator Burgers"...what fond memories and traditions he has left in so many hearts. I hope we can all carry them on with our children and grandchildren. Maybe if my son, Cole, would have gotten to know him, he would have turned him into an Aggie instead of a Longhorn. Love/ Jason, Christy, Cole & Natalie

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Bill Lowrance Southlake, TX July 21, 2005

Its been very often that I think of my friend in Beaumont and the many times and experiences we shared together at Farmers. I can`t ever recall a visit with Ralph that he was not smiling and acting his usual happy self. He was always at peace with the world. Ralph was one of a kind. My condolences are with Ralph`s family.

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Harlan Roberts Aransas Pass, TX July 21, 2005

Our deepest sympathy and prayers to the family of our good friend and Battlin B-1 classmate. Harlan and Elizabeth Roberts

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Cissy Sanders and Geoff Stasio Austin, TX July 21, 2005

Ryan, our hearts go out to you and your family. I know how close you were with your father and was very sad to hear the news. You and your family will be in our prayers. With all our love, Cissy and Geoff

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kay & Jack Pongrass San antonio, TX July 21, 2005

Kyle, We were very saddened to hear your Father passed away. If there is anything we can do, please don't hesitate to ask. Love Jack & Kay

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Richard Mealer Austin, TX July 21, 2005

May God's Peace be with you during these difficult hours.

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terry ptacek edgartown, MA July 21, 2005

TO A TRUE ORIGINAL! YOU WILL BE MISSED- GIG'EM

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Ty Gwynn Beaumont, TX July 20, 2005

Ralph was a good guy. I remember him making toasted cheese sandwhiches under the toaster oven when I was little. He would let me turn on the lava lamp and watch b rated movies when ever I was over. Doesn't sound like much, but for a five year old he was a valuble allie.

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Sam Gwynn Beaumont, TX July 20, 2005

Of all the pictures you could have chosen, this is the perfect one! He'd love it! A great guy and sadly missed, but he lives on in many happy memories.

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Donna Gwynn Beaumont, TX July 20, 2005

Kyle and Ryan (my other two sons), you know how much we love you, your mom, and your dad. We will always eat "alligator burgers" at our house, and we will always think of Big Ralph when we do. Ralph had a passion for A & M, his family, and his friends, and he shared his love of those things with everyone he knew. He was truly one of a kind, and he will be missed. Love, Donna, Sam and The Crew

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DeLane Dooley West Caldwell, NJ July 20, 2005

Dear Kyle, Ryan, Janice, Darcy and all the family… It’s so hard to write about someone that I’ve known since I was five years old. From the beginning when I spent time torturing Ralph and Marsha by running through the living room when they were trying for some ‘alone’ time on dates to their wedding and children and finally our ‘middle ages’. One of the things that I admired about both of them was what great parents they were. He took you boys camping and fishing and even taught you how to cook. He taught me. Every time I make roast with Pepsi and green beans and that wonderful hot Velveeta cheese dip, I think of Ralph. He was always a part of my life and family, even after the divorce, he was still my brother-in-law. He was the only brother I ever had. He teased me when I went through my teen years and grew with me during my adult years. You might remember my favorite episode when we set the sewer on fire with the fireworks one New Year’s after I was married. I love the picture that you chose from your wedding. It is just SO Ralph. Always a smile and a great story. I will miss him dearly. Always remember how much he loved you and keep that in your hearts. It will get you through these difficult times. You have a lifetime of wonderful memories that other people only wish for. I am sorry that Tristan, Erin and I will not be able to make the trip down for the funeral, but please know that our hearts are always with you. If you need anything, just let me know. Raise three glasses for us and celebrate your wonderful Dad. We all love you very much, DeLane, Erin and Tristan

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Ryan Hawkins Beaumont, TX July 20, 2005

What a wonderful feeling to hear such wonderful things from such wonderful people about a truly wonderful man! The love and support that has been thrust upon us has made me feel incredibly fortunate. Thanks to Ralph for everything he did for me, which was everything. And many thanks to y'all.

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Erin Dexter Spring Houston, TX July 20, 2005

Your dad was a wonderful person. He will be truly missed. I will always remember the summers that we spent together. I know he is with my dad watching over us. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always. With love, Erin Dexter Spring

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Larry Lunn Round Rock,, TX July 20, 2005

As a fellow employee at Farmers, I always enjoyed working with Ralph over the years. He always seemed to have a positive attitude and was truly a joy to visit with. He was a true professional at work and a very fine person as well. He will be remembered for his positive influence.

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David & Elizabeth Smith Austin, TX July 20, 2005

Ryan, our condolences go out to you and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

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Matthew Dexter Houston, TX July 20, 2005

Unlce Ralph was a great man. The world lost a good one. I know that he is looking down and smiling, along with my dad. My best to Ryan and Kyle. Matt Dexter

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Joe & Jo Crutchfield Bronson, TX July 20, 2005

Kyle, we are so very sorry about your Dad. He was one of the nicest people we knew. You and your family are in our prayers. Love, Joe & Jo

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Janet Williford Red Rock, TX July 20, 2005

Hawkins Family I am so sorry for your loss, may GOD be with you and your family during this trying time. Know that he is always there with you and on him you can rely. God Bless you all.

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Jerry and Kathleen Soper Dallas, TX July 20, 2005

Ryan and Kyle - We are certainly going to miss your Dad. What a great guy he was. We are priviledged we got to spend as much time as we did with him. I think the manner in which he treated your Mom after their divorce is a great example to us all and a testament to what a truly nice person he was.

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Wm T (Smut) Smith ’64 Phoenix, AZ July 20, 2005

Guys, so sorry to hear of OUR loss--your pop knew how to love ,respect, and enjoy the JOURNEY of LIFE--he will be missed and rembered by all---with LOVE --wmts --SMUT to your dad

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Chris Schaezler Dallas, TX July 20, 2005

I will always remember Ralph & Marsha, and know they can now be together again and may the Lord be with them always. It was such a special treat to spend time with him during our 40 year reunion. Melvin and I had such a good time with him at the hospitality room, and Anita and I were fortunate to sit with him at the Saturday night banquet. We had such fun remembering the days at B-1, and especially our Fish picture that was floating around. He was a special friend even though many years have passed.

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DIANA NOONE, PIPER NOONE ROBERTS & MONIKA NOONE MEINSCHER BEAUMONT, TX July 20, 2005

ALL OF YOUR FAMILY IS IN OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS. YOUR DAD WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.

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Troy Katy, TX July 20, 2005

Kyle and Ryan, That is an excellent testimony to your Dad. Ya'll did a wonderful job. We will see you guys on Thursday. All our prayers are with you, Troy and Heather

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Tony Larson Kerrville, TX July 20, 2005

I am so sorry to learn of Ralph's death. He was truly one of the most likeable people I've ever known. He will be greatly missed by all of his old B-1 buddies.

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Nelson, George L. Bryan, TX July 20, 2005

I'm so sorry for this loss to your family. We know your father in a very special way, having shared the Aggie experience for a lifetime, which was made even more special as a result of being in B-1 together. Your Mom and Dad will always be special to us! May God give to you the peace and reassurance that only He can provide. George Nelson

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Hal Johnson Bedford, TX July 20, 2005

He loved life and his family to the fullest. I don't think he ever had a bad day. I am proud to have known him and lived through some of the same experiences @ A&M. He is in good hands now.

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Kevin and Molly Webb Austin, TX July 19, 2005

Our deepest condolences to the Hawkins family. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you in this difficult time. Remember and cherish the good times with Ralph. He always had a story to tell to brighten the day. Often the stories were about his family, especially his boys or his grandchildren, which he loved very much. He will always be with those of us whose lives he touched through our memories of these good times we shared.

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Janice Hancock Corsicana, TX July 19, 2005

Kyle, my deepest sympathy to you and all the family.

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Bryan, Melissa & Mia May Sacramento, CA July 19, 2005

Melissa, Mia & I would like to extend our sincere condolences to Kyle, Ryan and all of Ralph's family. The picture of Ralph here was perfect because I don't ever remember seeing him when he didn't have a smile on his face. He was my 2nd Father throughout our days at West Brook and has the stories to prove it (remember the blender in the tent in the backyard?) I'm sorry I won't be able to make it to Beaumont for the services but please hoist a cold one for me in Ralph's honor. We will have all of you in our thoughts and prayers as we remember a great man and our friend forever.

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The Glenn Rice Family College Station, TX July 19, 2005

Fine man that will be greatly missed.

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Kyle Austin, TX July 19, 2005

I would like to thank everyone for their kind thoughts and prayers. We look forward to seeing those of you that can make it to the service. I am sure Dad will be there enjoying all the stories that will be told.

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